Anger is never an excuse for disrespect; it is a revealer of the disrespect in a person’s heart that found an opportunity for expression.
Pay attention to what people repeatedly do when they are angry. If you can establish a pattern then you have found who a person truly is. Anger takes the form of the state of heart of its possessor.
Decent people will vent their anger decently. Nasty people can never disappoint you when they heat up; they will surely be nasty.
You can’t honour a person when you are happy, and dishonour them when you get angry. Honour does not depend on mood swings. It is possible to be angry and not offend.
Be ye angry, and sin not:
Ephesians 4:26 KJV